March 26, 2018

5 College Regrets

The 5 things I'd redo about college are 1) set goals for myself, 2) take attendance more seriously, 3) do a degree audit earlier, 4) hosted a little harder for a real job, and 5) be more involved with the law. law school blog. law student blogger | brazenandbrunette.com

It is absolutely crazy to me that I’m about to graduate law school! High school went by fast, college even faster, and somehow law school went by the fastest of them all. Since I’m about to finally be done with school after 22 years straight of it, I’ve suddenly become very nostalgic. And with that, I got to thinking about things I’d do differently if I could go back and do it all over again. For time’s sake, I’ve narrowed it down just to 5 regrets I have about college. Hopefully this will give some insight to some bright-eyed freshmen and a wakeup call to any upperclassmen so you can have less regrets than I do. Although that isn’t to say that I don’t love looking back on my times in college and high school!

1. Set goals for myself

I came into college flying by the seat of my pants and while that definitely came in handy several times, it did have its downsides. If you know me then you know that I’m a big fan of making a goal and then having lots of little milestones to get me that goal. Once I realized that med school wasn’t for me, I knew in general that I kinda wanted to be a lawyer but I actually didn’t do much about that until the summer before my senior year (why I’m not surprised I had such bad luck applying to law schools). Honestly I think part of the problem was that getting in to college was pretty easy for me so I greatly underestimated the effort that it takes to get in to law school. I wish I had taken the time to figure out all of the little pieces that it takes to get in to law school and all of the little steps that I’d need to do along the way to get me there. I’m happy where I’ve ended up, but I do think I could’ve done a little more work in college to make the journey here way less bumpy. 

What you can do is to sit down and make a 5 year professional plan. Think of everything you would do if you can! It’s okay if some of this is a wish list and something that honestly might not happen. Then take that and figure out what’s most important to you and organize your list. Then try to come up with at least 5 things you need to do to make each thing happen (so if you want to go to law school, think like good LSAT score). Then look at those 5 things and think of any steps you need to make that happen. In the end, you’ll end up with your big goals broken up into small goals, and those small goals broken up into steps to do. Then give yourself a timeline or due dates to keep you on track. I actually really like the Passion Planner for doing this! If you do this at the beginning of every school year or semester, you’ll feel much more in control of chasing after your dreams.

Related: What to do every year of college to prepare for law school

2. Taken attendance more seriously

My attendance my freshman and sophomore years of college were so stereotypically terrible. Even for the easy classes that I could skip a lot, I wish I still would have gone more. First off, it’s just a bad habit and then was a huge adjustment for me when I got to law school and basically couldn’t miss any class (I had perfect attendance in some classes!). Law school really helped me see the obvious in that if you actually go to class and actually pay attention in class, the tests are so much easier! I mean my 1L year I was getting a little paranoid that it was too easy when my “studying” for finals was mostly just a review for once instead of me trying to last minute teach myself an entire subject. Not only that, but regularly showing up in class is a great way to make a good impression on a professor so that when you do come to them for a letter of recommendation they won’t be like “who are you??”

Before I got here, I had heard that the best way to success in law school is to treat it like I job and that’s one thing that I’ve learned is spot on! Now I know this is easier said than done because it’s not the norm in college, but try to at least try to be a good student. Learn how to convince yourself to go to class even though you have 10 other reasons not to go. Learn how to take your laptop and only take notes on it, completely muting iMessage and avoiding Facebook/Pinterest/online shopping. At least read the summaries of the assigned chapter before you go to class so you’ll actually know what’s going on. I promise you that you will be so grateful that you did.

Related: The difference between college and law school

3. Do a degree audit earlier

Here’s the thing: I actually regret my degree. Not because I don’t like Spanish or anything, but because of how I ended up being a Spanish major. The truth is, I was in the honors college working to get one of their degrees, when I submitted my intent to graduate my junior year just like everyone else. I got an email back from my advisor letting me know that I was at least 3 semesters away from graduating since I was behind on my honors classes and there’s only so many offered each semester. At that point, my options were either drag out graduating for a year and a half or bump my minor up to my major. Basically it was a hot mess. All of this could have been avoided if I did a degree audit earlier and kept up with that better. I even have friends who have had the same problem and ended up graduating in August after they had already assumed they were graduating in May. Go to your advisors office often and make sure you stay on top of this. Even if it’s not required, still go visit your advisor and talk to them. When I went to see my advisor about switching my major, she was so helpful and even told me which professors to take because they were easier!

At the time, I didn’t really feel like it mattered because even though you have to have a science degree to get in to med or dental or vet school, there is no degree requirement to go to law school. But now that I’m semi out here in the real world, I realize that this was the wrong way to look at it! Sure you can have a degree in underwater basket weaving and still get in to law school, but that’s still going to show up on your resume. So imagine you’re sitting in an interview trying to tie together your random degree with the job you’re applying for. I’ve definitely already ran in to that because I’ve lost a lot of my fluency since graduating so my degree is kinda worthless now. Now that I know I want to work in in-house or employment law, I wish I would have taken more business and HR classes. I also really wish I would’ve taken a tax class so that I actually knew what “basis” and “the line” was before I was struggling in my tax law class. My point is, don’t just do a degree audit with your school for graduation; do one with yourself for your future as well! (conveniently, this also goes along really well with that I was saying in #1)

Related: How to Choose a Pre-Law Major

4. Hustled a little harder for a real job

I only had two jobs in college, and both of those were minimum wage retail associate positions. They helped me to have spending money, but that’s about it. Do you know how hard it was for me my 1L year to apply for jobs with no real job experience? I mean, I couldn’t exactly connect being a teller with being a summer associate because they didn’t have much in common besides “excellent people skills” and “trustworthiness around money.” I fully understand that everyone has to start somewhere and that I probably would have had these jobs anyways, but I wish I would’ve used what little experience I did have at these jobs to move on up in the world. I can’t explain how jealous you feel when you’re sitting in class and someone is talking about how they totally understand the foreign concept your professor is talking about because they had some experience with that in some way at their job. Remember, law school is a game and one way to get ahead is to come in with some life knowledge beyond just how to neatly fold and stack shirts.

If I could, I would go back and tell myself to always be on the job hunt. I know job hunting is miserable but I missed up opportunities by being complacent with my boring job. Even if it’s still a typical part-time job, look for jobs where you can possible find a mentor (and hey maybe a rec letter on your worth ethic too). Look for jobs that will give you an opportunity to grow and gain some experience. Springboard what you have into moving up in the world and set yourself up for success once you get to law school and you’ll be so grateful that you did!

Related: How to find an internship

5. Be more involved with the law

I thought I had a good idea about what to generally expect working in the law through hearing law students and lawyers come and talk to my pre-law chapter of Phi Alpha Delta when I was in college, but at the time I didn’t realize how that was just the tip of the iceberg. There’s actually a lot of stuff about the law that I didn’t even know about until I went to orientation as a 1L! I wish I would’ve hung out in a courtroom, shadowed a lawyer, seek out an unpaid internship, really just anything to give me some fist-hand experience before I went in to law school! It was really hard my 1L and 2L year when I’d get asked “what kind of law do you want to practice” in a job interview and all I had for them was a doe-in-the-headlights look (as you can imagine, this didn’t exactly impress them). Even when I was interviewing for my externship, they asked why I wanted to do in-house law and I had no real good answer for them! Now in interviews, I’ve experienced enough to say that I know that criminal isn’t for me because I sat through a few trials and I know that I like employment law because I’ve had a few assignments with that and I know I like commercial real estate law because I’ve looked over dozens of real estate agreements. Having these experiences to tie in to why I want to work somewhere is a much better answer than just “oh I liked this one class that’s relevant to this so I think I’ll like this job.”

I didn’t bother to get involved in the legal field before law school because I knew that I would figure it out on my own, but I wish I would have had some real life experience before I came so I could have some kind of idea about what classes would interest me and what jobs would be good to apply to. Make it your mission to learn about as many different areas of the law as you can so you’ll know more going in! Even if you do have to spend all summer working a paid part-time job for money and an unpaid part-time internship, you won’t regret doing it. And absolutely try to go hang out in a courthouse as much as you can! It sounds little, but you’d be amazed at what you learn. Trials are open to the public by law and if you tell them you’re a prospective or current law student, you’d be amazed at how the help give you a behind-the-scenes look. And all of these experiences are great to touch on in your personal statement to connect your own story and the law.

Related: 5 things to do before law school 

I feel like such a big sister out here pushing y’all to learn from my mistakes haha! But I do hope that some of what I’ve said today will resonate with you and help you get your life just a little bit more together before you head off to become the Next Elle Woods. If you’re brave enough, I’d love to read what mistakes you realized that you made after graduating college!  

March 21, 2018

Pastel Stationary Supplies for Spring

The prettiest pastel stationary supplies for spring, including soft-toned pens, highlighters, paper products, and office supplies. spring school supplies. pastel desk supplies. pretty stationary supplies. law school blog. law student blogger | brazenandbrunette.com

Spring has sprung!! I know so many people say fall is their favorite season because it has sweaters and pumpkin spice lattes and whatnot, but hands down my favorite season is Spring!! Thankfully it's even starting to feel like spring here in Dallas and I couldn't be happier. To celebrate (or get you in the mood if you live up north where it's still freezing), I'm sharing some of my favorite spring-colored pastel supplies!


Pens


Staedtler really is a staple brand to have because their pens are just amazing! The colors are perfect and they don't bleed at all. The pastel Staedtler pens are great for either brightening up your notes or writing up your spring adventures in your planner.


Since retro is the new thing, let's throw it back to elementary school with some pastel gel pens! And you can totally be a ~signs legal document with a pastel pink gel pen~ kinda person with these.




Okay so these are technically "pens" but they're more like markers. If you're on the creative side, then these pastel art pens are perfect for everything from bullet journaling to practicing your calligraphy. 



Haha at this point I'm using the term "pens" very fast and loose here, but these pastel Sharpies were just too pretty not to include. But in my defense, they are fine point so at least they're close to being pens!


Highlighters


Allow me to introduce you to the iconic Zebra Mildliner highlighters, but in pastel. They will literally make your day as you're highlighting in your casebook because they're so bright and cheery!



Equally as iconic is the Stabilo BOSS wallet! They're so cute and chunky and now they're pretty in pink (and 5 other pastel colors as well!



I've been obsessed with Pilot FriXon highlighters ever since I saw them "in the wild" haha because they actually do erase themselves without smudging and leaving a residue! So of course, I had to include the pastel set of these erasable highlighters in this list. 



These pastel highlighters are super cute and chunky just like the Stabilo ones above, and are in some seriously gorgeous colors!



Okay last set of highlighters I swear! I just had to include these Monami pastel highlighters to the list because I like how there's actually a wide range of colors so you get a lot of options even though they're all pastel colors.

Related: My favorite highlighters and why


Paper products


I know it's the beginning of the semester, but now is a good time to grab some extra notebooks before you run out of room or stock up while it's off-season for school supplies. This set of pastel notebooks is absolutely adorable to go matching with your pastel pens and highlighters. 



Of course I would be a terrible law student if I didn't throw in some pastel legal pads! My 6th grade math teacher actually made us use these because she had read somewhere that colored paper is easier on your eyes or helps you concentrate better. I can't exactly remember what it was but I know we were the most colorful 6th grade class ever haha.


If legal pads aren't your thing, but you want to try out my math teacher's theory on colored paper, then maybe try these pastel notebooks. They have dotted lines which I think are pretty cool!



Lastly, are pastel pocket journals! These will be great to have at your internship but you can get some use out of them now by journaling or just jotting down thoughts in them.


Office Supplies


Tell me you don't get happy just looking at one of these pastel file folders! They come in lots of soft colors but also are great for keeping up with professor handouts or storing your résumés in a place where they won't get crumpled.



Page tabs are amazing because in your casebook they can help you easily find chapters and in your statute book they really help to quickly find a statute when you're on call. So you might as well make your book pretty with some pastel page tabs!



I use sticky notes for like everything because I'm a scatter brain, so I love the idea of having pastel Post-Its because I'm sure that I'll go through the whole pack before the end of spring. A great idea would be to write a little daily affirmation or motivational quote on them and stick them on your mirror for a pretty little pick me up :)



Washi tape is great because not only will it really step up your planner game, but it's great for around the house! I will tear off a small piece of tape and stick it on leftovers with the date I made it so that I don't accidentally eat something so old it went bad. With lots of colors in this pastel washi tape set, you can find lots of ways to use them!

Whoo okay I'm done!! Haha I hadn't originally meant for this post to be so long, but once I got started I just couldn't stop because I already love both stationary supplies and pastels. Do you like pastels too? Or what's your favorite part about Spring?! I'd love to know so tell me in the comments!
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March 16, 2018

5 Internship Desk Must Haves

5 items that on my work desk that I actually use every single day and couldn't survive without are a notebook, to-do list, badge lanyard, water bottle and minimergency kit. what's on my desk. what to buy for an internship. what you need for an internship. what to bring to on your first day of work. internship supplies. desk supplies. law school blog. law school blogger | brazenandbrunette.com

Helloooo! Today's post has been requested a few times so I'm so excited to finally get around to posting this! What took me so long to post it was that I'm currently in a temporary position so I haven't really decorated my desk a whole lot, plus my desk area isn't all that huge so even if I wanted to, I wouldn't have much room to put stuff even if I wanted to. I'll save a "what's on my desk" post for once I do get a job and have a desk, and today's post is just about 5 basic things that belong on any desk.

And as an intern, you should be cautious decorating your desk in general, because you are just temporary so you don't wan't to waste your time/money practically moving in for only a few weeks. Just use your best judgment once you get the feel of your office!

Related: How to set up your desk for school


Notebook

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I’ve mentioned it before but it’s worth mentioning again, as an intern you are going to want and need a notebook! I take notes on all of my assignments as they’re being assigned to me, and then will keep my notebook within reach on my desk at all times. I reference it every single time before I turn in an assignment to make sure that I did everything that was asked of me and didn’t get any details confused. And when I get asked to tag along in a meeting, it’s always the first thing I grab for before heading off.

To-do pad

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One Friday, no lie I received like 8 different assignments within 30 minutes! I instantly felt so overwhelmed even though most of the assignments were fairly easy, just because I didn’t know where to start. So now every morning I take a look at what assignments I have going on, and use those to make a daily to-do list. I make mine very detailed so I don’t forget anything— one assignment might have 10 different to-do boxes just because I’ll have email so-and-so about this; meet with boss about this; look up this on WestLaw; add changes so-and-so sent yesterday; CC paralegal on email; send final copy to so-and-so. Every step gets its own box and it really helps me stay on top of everything. I’ll also make a note of when I send people emails so then I’ll know to follow up with them in a week or two if they forget to reply to me, just so I don’t drop the ball and forget to finish an assignment.

Badge lanyard

#3 Badge Lanyard -- 5 items that on my work desk that I actually use every single day and couldn't survive without are a notebook, to-do list, badge lanyard, water bottle and minimergency kit. what's on my desk. what to buy for an internship. what you need for an internship. what to bring to on your first day of work. internship supplies. desk supplies. law school blog. law school blogger | brazenandbrunette.com
At every single job I’ve had since coming to law school (both government and corporate), I’ve had to have a badge. So my guess is, most of you will probably have to have a badge. Usually the badges have some kind of clip on them, but if you don’t have pockets it can be uncomfortable to clip right on your waistband and if you wear a dress you’ll have nowhere to clip it to. The first time I wore a dress at my internship I just left my badge on my desk but then totally forgot about it when I went to a meeting and got locked out after going to the bathroom! So now I have a trusty badge lanyard that I wear most days just because I never want to get locked out again.

Water bottle

#4 Water Bottle -- 5 items that on my work desk that I actually use every single day and couldn't survive without are a notebook, to-do list, badge lanyard, water bottle and minimergency kit. what's on my desk. what to buy for an internship. what you need for an internship. what to bring to on your first day of work. internship supplies. desk supplies. law school blog. law school blogger | brazenandbrunette.com
Is it weird that I have a “work water bottle?” Because I totally do! One day I forgot to bring it and I was dyyyying that whole day because I had to get up every 5 minutes to refill my little Styrofoam cup that I grabbed from the breakroom. And then I realized just how much easier life is without having to haul your water bottle to and from work every day. Since I only use it for water, all I have to do is rinse it out and clean the mouth piece and then it’s good to go every day. Plus if you carry around the same water bottle all day, every day then people will start to know it as “your drink” and can bring it by your desk if you set it down and forget it somewhere 😊

Minimergency kit

#5 Minimergency Kit -- 5 items that on my work desk that I actually use every single day and couldn't survive without are a notebook, to-do list, badge lanyard, water bottle and minimergency kit. what's on my desk. what to buy for an internship. what you need for an internship. what to bring to on your first day of work. internship supplies. desk supplies. law school blog. law school blogger | brazenandbrunette.com

I took my minimergency kit out of my backpack and brought it to my desk when I first got to my internship! I love having it on my desk because nothing makes you notice something wrong with your nail quite like reading a contract 😂. For real though, I will end up filing my nail at least once a week with the mini emery board in there. And the sewing kit gives me this huge peace of mind to know that if I were to have a button fall off or something, I could quickly run to the bathroom and actually fix it instead of looking dumb all day. Basically anything you might need is probably in here!

That’s basically the few items on my desk that I would be seriously upset if I didn’t have one day. You’ll notice that all of these things are small because as an intern you actually won’t need that much. The smallness is also handy because that means they can all fit in your purse on your first day so you can have everything you need on day one without having to bring a box full of your crap or something.

Related: What's in my work bag

Hope everyone enjoys St. Patrick’s this weekend! I took a three day weekend and am going to the Houston Rodeo since I don’t technically have a spring break (ugh the real world). For those of you still on spring break, enjoy it for me!
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March 14, 2018

5 Best Work Basics from Amazon

Summer internships are coming up, so here's 5 cheap work clothes option to help make it easier when you have to take an unpaid internship. where to find cheap work clothes. amazon business casual clothes. amazon business professional clothes. what to buy for a work capsule wardrobe. law school blog. law student blogger | brazenandbrunette.com

And I'm back with Work Wear Wednesday #2! Today I decided to share some workwear finds from Amazon of all places. As students, we get access to free Amazon Student Prime! This means free two-day shipping and free returns. With that plus cheap finds, getting work basics off Amazon is a way to start getting work wardrobe without spending much.

Related: What you'll need for a lawyer wardrobe 

I'm low key obsessed with Amazon and shop on there way too much, but recently just decided to start buying more than just household items on there and try out their clothes. I was really worried about buying clothes from Amazon because I was afraid of getting clothes that were made out of cheap material and that looked nothing like what the picture was. This isn't the norm, but that's not to say that it hasn't happened to me. My biggest tip for buying clothes from Amazon is to read the reviews and especially look at any reviews with pictures if you can. Save your time and money and don't order something with a bunch of different people saying the material is scratchy or something. But if you do end up with a miss, the best part about Amazon is the free returns so just go ahead and send it back!


Basic camis


I ordered this white cami to wear with jeans and a cardigan this spring, but one day was like hey maybe it'll look good under a blazer and damn was I right! The material was perfect to be business-y and it has built-in fabric to keep my bra from showing through. I actually loved it so much that I went back and got it in black and green!

Basic shells

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While camis are great under blazers, sleeveless work tops are great to wear suits when you need to be more formal. If your office is casual you might get away with wearing them as-is, but you can always make it more professional by adding a blazer or cardigan on top.

Basic pants

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While you'll definitely need a suit, you won't necessarily need to wear your suit pants every single day and instead can wear just normal business professional pants. Since this pair is only $30, you can easily build a capsule wardrobe just by buying a black pair one month, a navy pair another month, and a gray pair another month!

Chiffon tops

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Chiffon tops always look good for work because they're a step up from regular cotton shirts. Basically any color you get will go perfect with the pants above, and then you can mix and match to easily create a capsule wardrobe since this top is only $20 each. 

Bow tie tops

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Let's just all agree to never use the official term for these "pussy bow" and just call them by the less-awkward "bow tie" (even though it sounds like a guy's bow tie). Once you get past the name, bow tie tops are amazing for work! They look so stylish and classic tucked into a pencil skirt! Personally I think everyone should have one just because they look so damn good.

See? Some actually good stuff on there! And this is just 5 pieces of the literal thousands of professional clothing options on Amazon. Since there's nothing fancy about these pieces, you can easily stock up on them and instead of paying $100 for one pair of pants, you can get pants and 2-3 tops! But here's to hoping that one day $100 will actually be cheap for what we can afford to spend on work pants haha. 
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